{"id":8597,"date":"2022-11-22T10:58:34","date_gmt":"2022-11-22T10:58:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/testv48.48logo.com\/spiritual\/?p=8597"},"modified":"2025-07-01T19:23:29","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T19:23:29","slug":"ripples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/testv80.demowebsitelinks.com\/Momentum-HealingV2\/ripples\/","title":{"rendered":"Ripples"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Paddle boarding is a meaningful experience for me. It is physical but peaceful (unless it is super windy). On a morning when I was out early, I saw tiny bugs dropping onto the water and thought, \u201cHow amazing is the ripple created from such a tiny creature?\u201d The tiny ripples were popping up all over the surface, creating gentle patterns on the water in the light of the sunrise.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

For me, this was yet another life lesson in an unexpected place.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

As I contemplated the effect of the bugs on the water, I reflected on the many ripples I have both created and experienced, large and small, in many ways and from so many sources. Sadly, some of them were harsh and hurtful, unkind words and actions that left me or others feeling dysregulated, sad, or (too often) abandoned. And unlike the ripples that can quickly disappear, many can leave a shadow or scar if left unattended. But I also reflected that if I choose to do so, I can let go of things that are not helpful to my connection with others and personal security and serenity.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

If you listen to the\u202f<\/span>webinars<\/span><\/a> that have been created for Seeking Integrity,\u00a0 I\u2019ve shared that I am keenly aware of my abandonment wound, and when that gets poked, it hurts. I can \u201cripple\u201d this hurt out if I choose, or I can engage in self-care to avoid getting stuck. Often, this involves reaching out to someone who knows me and can help me distinguish the real from the feeling.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

Happily, there are many ripples of kindness and healing, too. If I focus on just the negative, I miss out on how people can step into the hurt space with me. When I do this, I\u2019m not really abandoned and alone, as there are kind words and actions. And this truly happens. If I\u202f<\/span>see<\/span><\/i>\u202fthe ripples of kindness and lean into them, I can also create outward ripples of kindness.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

I can choose what I want to \u201cripple\u201d to the world, to those in my water surface area. Knowing this, I can choose to ripple positivity and healing, mostly by helping others in ways that I have been helped. My hope is that those who need help will receive healing, and that, in time, they will ripple it back out. What a gift we can give in this!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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